The Memorial Service, known in Setswana as Tebello, is a sacred and emotionally significant gathering traditionally held the evening before the burial day. It allows family, friends, and the broader community to come together in prayer, song, and remembrance of the departed.
Cultural Significance
In South African and most indigenous customs, the Tebello is more than a farewell — it is a night of honouring the life and spirit of the deceased. Through hymns, scripture readings, speeches, and shared memories, the gathering sets the tone for the final farewell the next day.
What the Service Includes:
- Venue Setup: Tents, chairs, lighting, and optional sound system to accommodate evening attendance
- Order of Service Programme: A digital(online) program featuring hymns, tributes, and readings
- Floral Arrangements: Optional coffin sprays, wreaths, or altar displays
- Family Tribute Segment: Speeches or messages from loved ones celebrating the life and character of the deceased
- Photo Display & Candlelight Vigil (optional): A display table or visual tribute with photographs and candles
- Refreshments (on request): Tea and light snacks for attendees
Purpose of the Tebello:
- Spiritual Preparation: It serves as a prayerful transition and emotional preparation for the funeral day
- Communal Comfort: A chance for friends and extended family to offer words of support and solidarity
- Cultural Continuity: Upholds a deeply rooted tradition observed across generations in many South African households
At K.O Funerals, we ensure that your Memorial Service (Tebello) is arranged with the utmost care, dignity, and cultural sensitivity — creating a peaceful space for remembrance, comfort, and closure.